Heroes on the Water: A Sanctuary for Veterans and First Responders
On a serene October day, I found myself navigating my truck through high weeds, drawn toward a trailer overflowing with kayaks. The moment I stepped out, I was enveloped by an unexpected tranquility — the gentle lapping of water against the lakeshore and the sweet melodies of birdsong. This peaceful setting was the backdrop for an organization dedicated to providing solace and support to those who have served our country: Heroes On the Water (HOW).
A Mission Rooted in Community
Heroes On the Water is a nonprofit organization that focuses on helping veterans and first responders, many of whom grapple with the invisible wounds of service, such as post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD). The organization’s mission is straightforward yet profound: to create a supportive community where these individuals can engage in fishing and kayaking, activities that foster relaxation and camaraderie.
As I approached the gathering of cars and kayaks at a private lake near Farmersville, I was greeted by George Chrisman, the D-FW chapter organizer for HOW. His firm handshake and warm demeanor immediately set the tone for the day. Alongside him was Bruce Fry, another leader within the organization. They began sharing stories of transformation — lives that had been positively impacted through the simple act of kayaking.
The HOW Experience: Nature as Therapy
The HOW model is refreshingly uncomplicated. Participants are provided with kayaks, paddles, life vests, and fishing tackle, all without the need for fishing licenses, thanks to the private nature of the lakes they use. The absence of engines — no trolling motors or noisy boats — ensures a peaceful environment, allowing participants to immerse themselves in nature and each other’s company.
Chrisman emphasized the importance of allowing therapeutic conversations to unfold naturally. “You get a sunny day, calm — all at once you may see three or four guys all huddled up together and they’re talking. And that’s the best thing we’ve got,” he explained. The organic nature of these interactions is what sets HOW apart from traditional therapeutic settings.
The Power of Connection
As I observed the participants, it was evident that the lake served as more than just a fishing spot; it was a sanctuary for connection. Chrisman recounted a past event where two veterans spent hours deep in conversation, sharing their experiences and struggles. “It’s almost like magnets,” Fry noted, describing how individuals naturally gravitate toward one another, forming bonds over shared experiences.
The laughter and camaraderie echoed across the water, illustrating that not every conversation needed to be heavy. Sometimes, the simple act of fishing and sharing light-hearted banter can be just as healing. Chrisman shared a poignant story about a veteran named Ray, who credited HOW with saving his life. After joining the program, Ray reduced his medication from 17 prescriptions to just four, eventually earning a degree and finding fulfillment in teaching.
A Broader Impact
The impact of HOW extends beyond individual veterans; it encompasses families as well. Chrisman recounted a touching moment when a mother, overwhelmed by her responsibilities, found solace during an event. “This is the first time in a month that I’ve had time by myself,” she confided, highlighting the importance of self-care for caregivers.
Despite not being a veteran himself, Chrisman dedicates countless hours to this cause, driven by a desire to give back. Fry, a Vietnam-era Army veteran, praised Chrisman’s commitment, calling him “an angel” for the time and energy he invests in the organization.
Growth and Community Engagement
HOW has grown significantly since its inception 14 years ago, with 58 chapters across the country, including two in North Texas. The organization has served over 64,000 veterans and first responders, along with 16,000 family members. An internal report revealed that 93% of participants felt more mindful after engaging with HOW programs.
The grassroots nature of HOW is evident in its operations. From the handmade plywood cabinets on the kayak trailer to the email list built primarily through word of mouth, the organization thrives on community involvement. Volunteers like Joseph Germain, who initially joined HOW as part of a community service assignment, have become lifelong supporters, finding purpose in helping others.
A Call for Connection
As I prepared to leave the gathering, I reflected on the profound silence that often accompanies HOW events. It’s a silence born from the weight of unspoken stories and the reality that many veterans are not present to receive the invitation to join. The staggering statistic from Mission Roll Call, which reports that 24 U.S. veterans die by suicide each day, loomed large in my mind. The need for organizations like HOW is more urgent than ever.
In a world where many veterans feel isolated, HOW offers a lifeline — a chance to connect, heal, and rediscover joy in the simple pleasures of life. The quiet moments shared on the water are not just about fishing; they are about forging bonds, finding peace, and, ultimately, saving lives.